Break up love and love rejected did not went sour.

KOMPAS.com — Having dropped out of love or the love denied not that fun, even for sensitive, desperate love is very painful. When someone refuses to love us, not just heart ached, but it feels like we are being pushed in the direction opposite of the direction that actually wants us to go.

When the he did not want to establish a relationship is more than just friendship, words that we said to a friend, less is more, "I rejected". Its essence, people that rejected is the victim, or passive.

Researchers at the University of Amsterdam found that the refusal of the nervous system response associated with parasimpatetik. That is, when the body is active, generally when want to fight, the system simpatetik will prepare, heartbeat, dilated eye pupil strengthened, and high energy. However, the system parasimpatetik is in charge of the body at rest. When love is denied, experts say, we will feel not favored, led to the heartbeat melamban, parasimpatetik nervous system activity. The bottom line, denied or terminated love produce physical and psychological response. No wonder if when we experience it taste like the "Uninstall" or "broken", probably because of the sudden melamban.

Designed for fear of rejection
As humans, we are very sensitive to rejection, especially social rejection. We have a strong motivation to seek approval and acceptance of the people around us. If we look into the ancient past, supposing we live alone and not have anyone, the chance of life we will be at the zero point of human need. another human being to survive. That is, we are social beings, we need the acceptance of others, not able to be rejected. It continues to evolve today, and we still need other people.

Disconnected the boyfriend is the same as quitting smoking
Five of five neurologist agreed, disconnected girlfriend sucks. Forget the girlfriend just as forgotten adiksi of certain substances, so described researchers at Stony Brook University. Researchers found there was an area in the brain are active when the pain of being rejected or parting, that part was also connected with the need for motivation, rewards, and adiksi. In fact, part of the brain shows the similarities between the rejection of love and "sakau" will certain substances. Rejection or breakup pain because we have a dependency of the relationship. After the breakup, as after adiksi on a particular matter, we are going through withdrawal.

Hard facing the loss of human
In General, people feel difficulties to experience a loss. The pain of losing something more powerful than get something. Daniel Kahneman, Nobel Laureate for his work, Prospect Theory, describing how one takes the choice in a situation, when he must decide between two things which contain risk. Example, people will look at the pain of losing money as much as Rp 50,000 bigger than he is getting money for the same amount. This is a psychological fact that our brains looking lost more weight than getting a new thing.

Losing feels stronger than get something, it means we are more motivated to avoid a sense of loss rather than take risks to get more. Consequently, not a few people after breaking up love says, "enough is enough! I enggak want to anymore dating. " We want to avoid the risk of loss, although there is a possibility we get true love in others.

The more we fail, the more distant goals are pursued
The study indicated that more and more often denied or parting, further also goals that we want to pursue. Jessica Wit, from Purdue University, said that after a few unsuccessful kicking the ball into the opposing goal, football will face higher and narrower than before.

Easy to bear witness to the power of refusal. The more we often rejected and break up the love, the more we looked at our vain efforts, then we will be reluctant to try again. Whereas, it will also create further belied the adulation of the liver.

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Editor: Nadia Felicia

Source: huffingtonpost.com

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Viewed the ideal partner can make a more lasting relationship of husband and wife.

KOMPAS.com- Words that circulate about love revealing, love is blind. But, for people who are already married, so it is a good thing, because it can help sustain marriages. According to a study, married couples who idealize his partner while married and always look for these qualities in his partner has the possibility to maintain the happiness of marriage at least up to 3 years into the future.

A study published in Psychological Science is included about 193 newly married couples. Most participants are mid-to late twenties. the participants are asked to fill out the survey in early marriage sheet and back filling every 6 months up to the age of marriage they reach 3 years.

The survey were asked they described himself and his partner, rate the relevancy of positive characteristics (good, funny, understanding, or warm) with flaws (lazy, critical, moody, tough talk, or childish). Then asked to rate the relevancy partner ideally in the same scale. The couple then fill out some other surveys to measure satisfaction, confidence, depression, temperament, and immediacy.

Reported by the researchers, self-assessment based on reality. The way we judge ourselves is generally quite accurate. While the way we judge other people, according to researchers, generally based on hope. Armed with this, researchers try to see the judgments of the respective partner.

Example, the ideal of the pri A partner is someone who is funny and warm, and he would prefer to see his wife who he married, B, as it was, even though B assess her moody and not warm. However, the researchers noticed, if a couple were seeing each other in an "ideal", the marriage has the possibility of a relationship lasting rather than couples who do not judge his ideal. Those who judge his ideal since early marriage have a happier marriage relationships and satisfying.

According to one researcher, Sandra Murray, PhD, Professor of Psychology at the University of Buffalo, human beings can change the definition to equate what he wanted to see for himself or how he saw the someone else.

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Editor: Nadia Felicia

Source: WebMD

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KOMPAS.com — Never ask why little or rarely women who love watching porn movies than men? Have you ever tried to watch movies with the him but found You mediocre, while the husband was already visible "enggak's impetuous"? The following reason:
Visual problems
Most porn movies targeted to an audience of men. The passion of a man with easy terstimulasi through visual stimulation, while women need emotional or mental stimulation. Therefore most porn movies devoted to women or couples there are stories and plot, its opposite, porn movies for men leaning is hard and straight. Because, basically, the steps to fuck and "memadu you" that's the most important in the context of the larger story. Most of the porn film, foreplay is rarely performed, most were the actors directly into the main sessions.
Less interesting
One of the most important part of the body of the man in the movies most porn is part his Dick. This also may explain why there are very few pornographic film actor who has the appearance of a face attractive in porn movies. Women are also not interested in seeing the cast women in porn movies that most blond, very thin, very large, leading to chest and lips swollen due to injected collagen.
Contrived
Women are not too interested in the situation and the action is often the case in porn movies. Most times, the cast in a porn film looks not like each other. For men, action copulate alone is enough, while the women are looking for a sense between the actor and aktrisnya, the mutual affection, and more.
Porn lose value
Most of the women rate the movies lose value or disgusting. Most women do not like the idea of strange things done in porn movies, such as behavior-behavior that often exist in hardcore pornographic films.

Film porno impressed "naughty"
Women generally do not have a boost as strong as men in matters of sexuality. Women sometimes had rather called by nicknames-nicknames naughty, many are reluctant to show passion sex desirous to her partner, or admit that he is also feeling the pleasure of witnessing the scene in the film pornography.
Sarah Stefanson, author of the special relationship in AskMen rubric says, things above this could be the cause of women was like watching a porn movie.

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Editor: Nadia Felicia
Source: askmen

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Charlie Sheen with Bree Olsen (left) and Natalie Kenley, and Bob and Max.

KOMPAS.com — Powerful men who claimed to have once slept with 6,000 women. After various ulahnya is embarrassing (among other drunk while naked, having an affair, threatening to kill his wife, and consume illegal drugs), still the adaaa ... just women who want to become his partner.

Now, the man 45 years makes this behavior again. He invited a reporter from NBC's Today Show to luxurious leather seats in Los Angeles, Wednesday (28/2/2011), to show how warasnya he currently. In this House, Sheen lives with two of his new girlfriend, a former nanny of his son, Natalie Kenly, and porn star Rachel Oberlin aka Bree Olsen.

"Women never menghakimiku," said Sheen explains why he chose the two women became his partner. "They do not impose his opinion or his needs themselves all the time. They are honest enough to tell me, ' Hey, know enggak, don't be shedding nonsens. You have to help me overcome this '. And we sort it out. "

When a recording is taking place, Sheen and both her lover posing bak family a peaceful and happy while hugging the twin sons of his wife, Brooke Sheen Mueller. He claims to not worry later Bob and Max, his two sons, will respond to all his deeds.

"I gave an example and teach children what is right and wrong," he told the gossip site TMZ. "If the correct version and my fault is different from the others, then my children will be different as well."

In fact, last week Brooke (33) was moved to this House and join with Sheen and his second for a vacation to the Bahamas. However, Brooke came home first after a fight with her husband.

Because his wife is currently not being at his side, Sheen admitted to both dewinya that together deliver the twins. He himself doubted the ability of Brooke in parenting and questioned his habit of drinking alcohol. Sheen admitted to not use illegal drugs in the House when there are children. For that he even invites the doctor to test the water art and prove that he is "clean".

Somehow the fate of the family later. The Superior Court of Los Angeles was issued an order to ban this guy are in a radius of 90 meters from his wife. However, Sheen is precisely determined to get the right child custody in full. It's an intricate family.

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Editor: Early

Source: The Daily Mail

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